我的人生哲学

你有你自己的人生哲学吗？

我想， 我有。。
曾经有朋友问过我： 为什么你总是让人觉得你很自信， 很坚强呢？

在我听到这个问题时， 我有点吃惊。
因为我从来不认为我是一个自信的人， 但是我却承认我是一个坚强的人。
我的坚强， 不过是我人生的过程而已。

以下是我的哲学：

1. 决定了的事，决不容许后悔。 若要后悔， 就不要做决定。


2. 时间是由自己安排的， 你要放多少时间在工作上， 在睡觉上， 在玩乐上等等，都有自己安排。。 所以， 我决不让时间或别人来安排我。。


3. 看事情， 不只是看表面上而已， 还得用心去分析。


4. 天下没有事是做不到的， 只是看你要不要做而已。 当作是一个挑战， 那么再难的事也难不倒你。


5. 咬紧牙关忍一忍， 在难受的事也会过去。


6. 轻易放弃， 只会让你重复的在同一个地方上跌倒。


7. 做人， 不要总是说说而已。 说了， 就要做！ 如： 我想学瑜珈。 既然想， 那么就要牺牲你的时间或某些东西将此事学好。


8. 在伤心的时候， 给自己一个时间， 这段时间后， 伤心就应该要结束。


9. 付出， 不一定就有一样的回报。 如果你的付出是为了回报， 那么我劝你别为任何人付出。


10. 如果总认为别人占你的便宜， 那么你就会处处防着他们。 结果， 你的快乐， 自由也都被占便宜了。 如果你不计较别人占你的便宜， 那么， 你永远不会认为别人在战你的便宜啦。。

相信， 每个人都知道这些道理， 可有多少人真正做到呢？

在以上的哲学， 都是我做人的路途， 也是我学习的过程。。
很简单吧？ 我的人生还在处于学习当中， 这些哲学也就一直陪伴我， 也有其他未知的哲学会在我的人生中不断的出现， 让我的人生更踏实。

你的人生哲学又是什么呢？ 或者你在我的人生哲学中， 领悟到什么了吗？

One Night Stand

What come out from your mind on One Night Stand?

That day, I was talking this topic with a best friend & we were discussing on this topic too..
Are you open-minded?
Do you think you able to accept one night stand?
If got the chance, will you take the try?
And what is the difference of one night stand and make love with someone you know or don't know for only one time?

A: Are you open-minded?
B: Haha... There are many categories on this topic wor.. Which you refer to?
Well, If for a discussion, sure I'm open-minded. I can talk/discuss/comment on whatever topic that you asked.

A: What if your bf not virgin before know you? Can you accept it?
B: Sure.. As long as it's happened before me or after me. Not the time together with me, on the other hand with another gal. If that, I unable to accept as I will felt that he is lies on me! How about you?
A: Yeah! Same as you.. Really can't accept that!

B: Then, can you accept one night stand?
A: You means me or my bf? Of course if my bf have me already still one night stand with other gal, sure I can't accept la. If you say me, if I have bf already, sure I wouldn't one night stand with other guy la. But if I'm still single, then I think I can accept one night stand la.

B: Erm... Why people can accept one night stand instead of make love? It just the naming is difference only. For example, a guy is making love with a gal only once.. That's consider one night stand as well mar.. Why when people asking you can accept one night stand or make love, people mostly are answer for the first one le?
A: Ya.. True also la... Then, how about you? Can you accept one night stand?

B: Haha... I don't know yet. If that is a handsome guy & the environment is romance, then I think I will try on it.. Or may be the environment too good already until I'm the one cant stand on it.. Haha...
A: Ya.. True also true also...
B: Especially after took some alcohol, plus some dim light with romance songs, & the guy is expert to make you feel comfortable & pamper.. then sure will go ahead already.
A: Right! And also especially go for business trip or vacationing at somewhere alone... With the beautiful weather, correct mood & nice environment... wowow... Don't care already lo...

That's all the conversation between us. It shown that both of us are super open-minded la..
But, what we discussed here is just a discussion.. Whether dare to do it or not, it still a question mark! Haha...

沿海地带

今天， 想推荐一首歌给你听：

歌曲： 沿海地带 歌手： 弦子

空荡荡的月台
入秋微凉的海

微风把脚下的树叶都吹开
火车就要出发催促我快离开
我的心已超载
你不了解的爱
当失望逐渐将一切都掩埋
没想到害怕更真实存在

在沿海地带放逐我的爱
孤单也很精采
我相信我们都有该去的未来
不该在原地徘徊

我其实很明白
梦醒了就不在
只是还挣扎着不让他离开
紧紧抓着的也都是空白

在沿海地带我远远离开
要更自由自在
不要我的心随着大厅的钟摆
停留在原地感慨

Nearsightedness

Have you been aware how many of your company staff are nearsightedness or amongst your friend gangs?


Recently I'm noticed that, quite a lot colleagues in my company are wearing specs/contact lens.
Just took my department as a example la.. I got 12 people in the team & 8 of us are shortsightedness.. A lot, right?
OK, not discussing others, but I will be the example.

When the time I joined this company, I always wear contact lens.
Because I felt that is convenience for me.
But, this situation did not maintain longer & my power of my nearsightedness become serious..

The reasons just simple:
1. Face small laptop screen (12.5") more than 8 hours
2. My position is straight directly to the sun light from the room opposite mine!
3. Hardly to wear it in the morning due to not enough sleep

Few months after I joined, I give up wearing contact lens & back to wearing specs.
Sometimes, even think of wearing sunglasses during working just because of the sunsight shoot directly to my eyes!
But, just think only la...

Now, I got a big monitor screen which is about 19" from my boss..
My eyes are feeling better due to the big & clear screen.. (but the privacy drop already la.. Coz everyone also can see the big words already mar!)
Besides that, this big monitor are blocking the sunsight shoot directly to me already..

That's great for me & hopefully my nearsightedness will not increase anymore.

耐性与暴躁的老师

昨天， 聊到一个话题：
如果要你教家人或者你的伴侣一些东西时， 你是一个容易发火的人，还是一个有耐性的人呢？

通常我们要教越亲密的人时， 都会比较容易失控。
你， 是属于哪一类的人呢？

我的脾气不是很好， 可是如果我的弟弟要我教他功课， 那要看几样东西：
1. 我的心情
2. 他的诚意

如果我的心情还不错， 加上问的人的语气还OK， 那么， 我大多数都会有耐性的教的。
如果对方并非有诚意的， 那么我不愿意浪费我的时间。
就好像我姐姐。。
曾经教过她日语， 最基本的vocal她都不认真的学习， 让我觉得浪费我的时间。
对于这种人， 以后我都不怎么会再教了。

所以， 基本上我认为我是一个有耐性的人， 如果对方愿意认真学习。。
因为， 我也希望我的家人或者伴侣有着一样的知识或认知。

给爸爸的话

爸， 我知道这些话不会传到你耳里； 但是， 我希望这会是奇迹般的让你知道我想说的话。。

从小到大， 我都知道你不是一个善于表达的爸爸。
在我有记忆以来， 和你的相处， 都是静而不语或者是脸红口赤的对白。
我知道你的关心和反对是以大声为主。。

可是， 爸。。。
你知道吗？ 我很希望一家人可以和睦相处， 和平商量和讨论任何话题， 不是大声就可以。
你看了“唐心风暴”吗？ 我希望我的家人可以好像戏中的唐家一样， 大家有说有笑的交谈。
我想， 你应该不知道， 这是我从小到大的梦想。

小时候， 我知道我很叛逆。。
可是， 我的叛逆是想告诉你我的不满。。
我的反驳是因为我想争取我的清白。

你还记得吗？
小时候， 我曾经得过一个小奖， 虽然只是一本小小的书， 可是， 那是我第一次的小奖耶。
但是， 我的书却被弟弟给撕破了， 而我当然生气的和弟弟争执起来； 你不问青红皂白的怪起我来。。我的委屈向谁讨？

还有一次， 我刚考到车牌， 有机会我就会要求坐上驾驶盘兜上一圈。 这一次也不例外， 我开车载一家人去吃晚餐。 吃完晚餐后， 你问我是否弄坏了收音机？ 我说没有。 可是， 你却一再的说我弄坏了不承认！ 你知道我有多伤心，有多生气吗？我伤心因为你不信任我。 我生气因为你冤枉我！ 所以， 我反驳。 你生气我反驳你， 而打了我。。 因为生气居多， 所以我刹车， 下车走路回家！那时， 我一面走， 一面流泪。。 你多次的不相信与冤枉， 让当时的我有点失控的想离家！ 你应该不知道吧。。可是， 最后的我， 还是走回家了。

这么多年以来， 我长大了， 我知道你的脾气， 我也学会了应对你的脾气。
我不再是多年前以反驳作为不满了。 我学会了平心起和的接收你任何的“反抗”。
有道理的， 我会记在心里； 没道理的， 我会当作没有听到。
不同的是， 我不再说任何一句。 你可否发现呢？

有些时候， 我还是希望你可以讲讲道理， 听听我心里的想法。。
我知道这是难如登天， 毕竟你总是认为自己讲的都是对的。
这些年来， 我以为我让你知道我是独立了， 我的判断力， 我的思想已经是很成熟了。
原来， 你还是没看到， 你还是认为你才是对的。

爸， 我不想再反驳。 我只希望你可以尊重我的选择， 了解我的决定。
你还不了解我的性格吗？ 我很倔强， 我的决定不会因为你的无理而改变的。
那， 为何你不尝试站在我的立场想呢？

我很抱歉的是， 我没有办法在你面前说这些话， 因为我知道你并不能接受， 也会大发雷霆。
所以， 我希望这些话会在某一天让你听到， 而你可以尝试接受和了解我的心。。

爱你的女儿

音乐故事

每一首歌， 都代表着一个故事。。
一首没有故事的歌， 就好像是一个没有生命的石头。

在我的人生中， 有很多歌出现过， 也在我悲伤， 快乐时陪伴过我。

童年时， 很多动听的儿歌陪我长大， 带给我欢笑。。
喜欢唱歌的我， 也曾经想加入歌咏队。。可是， 家人不愿意， 所以放弃了。。
虽然如此， 在我念小学时， 还是参与了一个乐器演奏会。。
虽然只是一个小小的演奏会， 可是还蛮开心的 ：）
记得在小学毕业时， 和几个好友唱的歌曲： 祝你一路顺风。
每次， 只要收音机播出这首歌时， 我都会很感触的回忆起当时好友~

后来， 在中学时期， 更多的歌曲出现在我心中。
曾经， 献过一首歌给一位要离开的老师： That's why

也曾经的一首歌让我开始我的puppy love： 后来
*后来我总算学会了如何去爱
可惜你早已远去消失在人海
后来终于在眼泪中明白
有些人一旦错过就不在
虽然那只是短短的一个星期， 可是这已足够让我回忆一辈子。

接下来的每两段感情， 都有一首歌代表着：

因为爱所以爱
因为他， 我才可以从伤心中恢复
因为他， 我知道爱需要付出
因为他， 我才懂得什么叫放下
也因为他， 我们还是很要好的朋友

恋爱频率
他， 让我轻易的微笑
他， 让我知道幸福的味道
他， 也让我学会独立和坚强
他， 让我知道爱也可以那么痛

在我的世界里， 音乐就好像我的一切。
没有音乐的陪伴， 我不知道我的世界会如何~
希望， 音乐真的可以陪伴我一生一世~

自言自语

你有自言自语的习惯吗？

我没有啦。。　可是，　我的同房同事有。。让我想起我的一些朋友也有这个习惯哦。。

记得我还在读大学时， 我曾归类自言自语的人与他们的科系。。
我的大学有3 格主要科系：工程系，　商业系和电脑系。

在我观察多时，　我发现工程系的同学都有这个习惯。
这很常发生在图书馆。。　当你看到一个人在自言自语的做着一些事时，那么那个人大多数是来自工程系的。

很奇怪吧。。　为什么会是工程系呢？
我也不清楚，　可能是不对自己说话会让他们不自在吧。。

你会这样吗？　我曾经问我的同事，　自己和自己说话不会觉得很奇怪吗？
她说可能是习惯吧，　所以也没感觉到怎样啦。。。

自言自语的你，　又有什么感想呢？
没有自言自语的你，　又怎么看待自言自语的朋友呢？

Her Relationship

Jessy & Joe has been together for a years.

Joe treat Jessy not bad & Jessy love Joe very much as well..

One time, Joe has to attend a 3 months training in United State.

During the period, they seldom contact each other, due to the time difference -- 14 hours.

Normally Jessy arrived office about 8:50am & Joe's time is about 5pm plus..

They only able to talk in few minutes before Jessy start busy on her job.

3 months later, Joe came back to Malaysia.

Their relationship not as close as before..

Is because Jessy become more independent or Joe was trained to be mature?

Jessy knows something has been changed, she sense that Joe has been changed as well.

But, she just keep silent on it.

A month past, Joe start the conversation to clear the "cloud"...

He said he had did something wrong when he is in United State.

He said he just play for fun only.

He said he still love her so much.

So, would you able to guess what did him did?

Yes, I know most of you able to guess correctly: he make love with someone.

Whether who is it, that not a main question already.

The main question is, how can a guy said love you so much & do something else with another?

Or I may said, guys are using their eyes to think most of the time, but girls are using their heart.

So, when Jessy heard that, her heart was so pain until the tears drop.

In Jessy's heart, she prefer Joe not to let her know.

Now, Joe told her the fact just like make a scar on her heart.

Jessy is a prefectionist person, she likes everything in perfect including her relationship.

But now, she felt her relationship was not as perfect & pure.

Besides that, during the period, she also noticed that Joe has another hidden relationship.

She cried, she sad, but she still look fine in front of people.
Another few months later, she request for break up.

She didn't tell the true reason of break up, but informed as personality not match.

After they broke up for a week, Jessy get a news that Joe has a new girlfriend.

& they are close & lovely..

She is not jealous, but released~

咖啡与巧克力之谈

你喜欢喝咖啡还是巧克力？

以前， 我并不怎么喜欢喝咖啡， 反而喜欢巧克力。
可能是我不喜欢咖啡那种苦涩的味道吧。。
可是， 最近却慢慢的爱上了咖啡， 爱上那种苦。

咖啡和巧克力事是不一样的。。
巧克力 -- 是甜中带苦。
感觉就好像在快乐中带点苦。
只有正在快乐， 甜蜜的人才品尝到那一点点的苦。

而咖啡 -- 是苦中带甜。
感觉就好像在苦中作乐。
只有曾经痛苦过的人才懂得苦的滋味， 也会在适当的时候享受苦的滋味。

你认同吗？ 你了解那种滋味吗？

Unfair Treatment

What normally will you do if people treat you unfair?

Okay, you might need me to clarify which I'm refering, right?
Unfair regarding your job, regarding your relationship, regarding the friendship, etc... Up to you to share the discussion...

Normally, I only complain about my unfair job.
Regarding my "lovely" company, I know we are short of people here, but sometimes I will felt like I'd overload. (But, I still will complete it as much as I can..)
Bosses said, we are a team, we must share our workload, we are not alone, etc...
Whenever xxx is on medical leave/annual leave/ emergency leave, I have to cover his/her works where I'm already got a lot.
But, when I'm on medical leave/annual leave/ emergency leave, NO one is cover my works & when I'm back to office, there just like a hill/ 2 hills on my table!

Fine! Somehow, bosses also doing the same way...
I believe they did see how much workload that I'm having now, but they still keep on push up on it...
The job which suppose have to be done by bosses, they will give excuses to pass to me & when I did wrong, they will come back to me! "Pai mia" :(
I don't mind to work on behalf of them, but the problem is please backup me la...
If I able to work on behalf you guys with no errors, then I can be a manager, not only this low post.. (hahaha...actually I work on behalf just would like to take over your position soon mar...)

Anyway, unfair is unfair. I'm willing to learn more so that I able to get up faster...
Is that my aim in this company? May be yes or may be no.
Yes, just aim for upper position lo...
No, aim for better company lo...

So, how about yours?
Like, you feel like you treat your partner better than he/she treat you...
Like, your parents love your brother or sister more than you...
Just share what is your feeling & how you treat this unfair only. No harm ;)

Where is the Peace?!

Today, I been received a news from a friend & also from newspaper..

My friend's brother was killed just because of his good deed.



I think most of the people know about this news from the newspaper/ radio/ tv news reporter today.

This young guy just would like to stop the car theft from stealing car, who knows it become his non-returned avenue..

Why nice people always facing threaten, raped, murdered, injured by those devil?
Why the security in Malaysia nowadays become so unsafe & dangerous?
What make people change from their kindness origin?
What make them being cruel on doing such in-humanity things?
Is it means that, even we see theft trying to steal something in front of us, we cannot voice out & just let it be?
Is it means that, when we see people attacked by someone else, we have to admit that nothing happen there?

Not only this case, few days back...
For those who always read newspaper or listen news from radio or TV, I think little Ying Ying case is another news which make us felt that human's ugliness.
How cruel mother's boyfriend killed the little girl & even need to cut her body into pieces & burned it?!
How cruel the mother still need to protect his boyfriend where her own daughter been killed by her so called devil boyfriend?!

Then, Johor safety case which need to protect by their own, but not depends on our lovely Police, etc..

When all these happened, where are the polices? What the polices do? How the polices protect the victims?


And Murderer, when you read the news from newspaper, wouldn't you feel any evil from what had you did?
Murderer, would you still able to fall asleep after what you did?
Murderer, wouldn't you think those victims will look after you?
Murderer, wouldn't you feel shaking when you awake from nightmare?

Where these peoples' human nature been?
What happen to this society?!

Fast & Slow

You are type of person fast or slow?
Hahaa... Is it wondering what fast & slow here?

Ok.. Fast & slow that I mentioned here is regarding on your response, your attitute on doing things, your walking speed, your eating speed, etc...

Well... I think I'm in the fast category..
Why I said so? Here is my answer..
I like to walk fast, because I don't want to waste my time; but somehow, I will enjoy walking slow when it is necessary.
I like to complete my work as fast as I can, so typing fast is one of the way because I don't like to drag my work to another day.
Somehow once in a month, I will purposely do things slow just would like to enjoy relax life.. :p
I like to reply people's questions fast, because I would like people reply me in the fast pace too..
I like to eat fast, because I felt eating too slow is wasting time too; eventhough I know that is not good for health..
And etc...

So, how about you?
Now, I want talk about people with slow category..
Erm.. May be I do not understand & enjoy the slow speed in my life...
Therefore, I can't stand on those people who always give me in the slow response..
Especially those things will drag on my job as well.

Let's give you some example again...
You need a things from someone urgently which only can provided by him/her & this people likes to do things slow. He/She talked with other people on nonsense things, then response on people question slow with "yiyi eng eng", searching & typing slow, etc..
Wow.. with such slow response, I really can't stand on it..
It will make me lost my patient easily, but I still need to hold...

Hahhaa... Sometimes, feel that my EQ not bad also..
Even know my temper is burning up already, but still need to hold it back to origin!
Huu~ Really need to drink a lot of cold water.. If not, my volcano will really out of control already...

Well.. I believe if you are the fast response person, you might know how was my feeling on that..
But, if you are the slow response person, then I think for sometimes, you have to learn how to response people fast when that is something urgent oh.. ^_^

Women Driving

Are you driving?
What do you think of driving?
You like it? Or you drive just because of convenience? Or you drive because you want tackle girls? =p

I believe most of the guys likes driving with speed some more..
So, how about gals? Are you the same?
Somehow, I'm don't think all the gals like drive where they much prefer to have a driver.
That's what I can realised & felt it.. But, if you are the one & you can voice out here as well...

For me, I likes driving too, especially at highway. May be I likes to speed as well.
But, when the time driving to office work & back, I not really enjoy much. Especially in front of mine is blind driver!

Sometimes, can't deny that women really not a mechanical expert..
When ask them use those mechanical stuffs, electrical stuffs, they will become an idiot & sometimes make things worst.
Therefore, I can said that 65% of the women in the world also idiot on that. Ok la.. not world la.. let's talk about women in Malaysia only la..

Let's us talk about driving in the city...
Every weekday, force to open our eyes & clean up ourselves & go to work...
When get into the car & drive on the road to office, someone in front of you are just like turtle, of course you will find a way to cut queue.. (I believe 80% people will agreed on this.. FIVE!)

But then you have to ensure that the gender of the turtle in front of you. If man, you can cut the queue with signal showing.. But, if that is a woman, then you need to be careful...
Because women not allow you to cut queue eventhough they are like turtles. Are you agreed? (Gals must be angrier & want to shout at me already..) But, I still want to comment on it...
When you try to cut queue, then they will purposely step deep on the accelerator; so you thought everything will be fine, who knows they back to turtle again!
It's so annoying!! Then, fine....

When you are in your line when traffic is jam, then someone need to cut queue in front of you...
If that is a man, then you just have to slightly step on ur brake.
But if that is a woman, be careful on it!! You may need to Brake hardly due to no signal informing, cut queue in dangerous way which almost hit your car & etc!

That is in the city.. How about highway?
If at highway, then only one thing!
When you are at the fast lane & someone blocking in front of you which is not fast..
Most probably that is a woman!
Sometimes feel like they didn't used their back mirror & side mirror...

Give you a real case which happened in front of mine...

Let's look at the photo below:

I'd been circle the dangerous driver & the victim location.. From the photo & assume you are the driver, are you think you can reverse and come out from the parking safely?

Well, for guys, I'm for sure most of them can reverse out easily & never hurt other cars..
For some gals, I'm believe it's not a big problem or may be the worst case only have to reverse few times only able to come out from the parking successfully.

But, what happened in front of me is, the driver (a woman. Again!) get in her car & reverse out straight & PONG!!! Then, she immediately drove back to the parking & walked down from her car.. then, check on the severity of her car. Of course the victim (Also a woman) also come out from the car & check on her side. Now is the interesting part which is, the driver COMPLAINT & SCOLD the victim that she can't park the car right behind people car. But, I want to voice out here is, actually I 100% confirmed that the space is more than enough for the driver to reverse out. So, I thought the victim will shout back to the rude driver, who knows she just keep quiet & drove off the car to let the driver reverse out from the parking...

Wow... May be I should said, "Great" to the victim which she has a tolerate & forgiveness heart together with a high EQ. Excellent! As for me, I'm sure I need the driver to pay for my repair cost which she never used the back mirror when she make reverse!

So, how dangerous a woman drive?!

Transformer

Have you watch Transformer already?
If no, I strongly recommend you to go and watch it. I beg you will like it very much.

Before that, I only watched the preview & found that quite interesting already.
But, from it movie start shown in the cinema, I keep on busy with work & no time to watch.

Then, I heard a lot of comments on the movie & most of the comments are good.
I think that's about 90% people praise on the movie & some watch for few times as well..

Therefore, my told myself that I must go to watch it. Finally, I went for this movie yesterday & bring along my mom as well... Hehe..

This movie really nice... from the sound effect, story creation, computer effect, even the artists.. all perfect!
After the movie , this movie is the next with the high ranking, I believe.

After watched the movie, I also cant wait to update my blog & inform others that, this movie is perfect & I'm waiting for the next show: Transformer 2... Heheh... that's no part time fee for me to highly promote this movie la..

While watching this movie, those young time memories came back.. Happy~
Some more, while ahead home from the cinema, I'm thinking of when my fighting car can transform as well...

Hahaha.... dream too much!!

Promise

Do you like to give people promise & at last you unable to make it? Or vice versa?

I seldom promise people, because I have a concept, which is once I promise, I must accomplish it. I don't like to give people empty promise! I felt like not respect people with breaking what'd been promised.


That's why I don't like people promised me at first, then break the promise later. If you unable to accomplish it, please do not promise people.


What do you think of "Promise" this word? For me, promise is not only between you & your partners. But, sometimes for friends as well. Promise doesn't means only for some occassion or functions, but even a small stuff that you committed you want to do it, that consider as a promise already.


For example, Ali promise to have lunch with Ahmad. Both parties has been agreed on the timing. Ahmad is rejected other invitation from colleagues & friends because he already promise to have lunch with Ali. On the other hand, a colleague invite Ali to have lunch together & he accept the invitation & break the promise with Ahmad. If you are Ahmad, what will you think? Other than irrespect, I also felt like Ali playing fool with me.


You know, I don't like that kind of feeling, especially when I reject everyone just because of you & at last you give me the answer is sorry with last minutes informed.

Actually nothing much on this topic, but do not know why, it become quite long again~

- Sibling -

Do you have any siblings?
Are you & your sibling's relationship good?
You like your sibling?

Yeah.. Today's topic is about sibling..
I've a sister (elder one).. Our relationship is not so good.
We are 2 years difference, but we are not close.

I always can see other family which sibling relationship is close & communicate well...
Somehow, I'm jealous & I dream to have that kind of relationship.
We can talk, we can shared, we can play, we can discuss, etc...
But, fact always a fact.

My sister & me not as close as I want.
Everytime, when I tried to talk nice to her, then she will talked in the way of rude & not polite.
Frankly speaking, I super don't like it...
Imagine when you tried to ask some comment from friends or your partner, they give you the answer with that kind of attitude, what come out from your mind after that?
Well.. She not only talk in this way with me, but whole family.
With her friends, she talk polite & nice... For me, fake!

I'm agreed that I'm a hot temper especially when people talk nice to you & get that kind of response. So, everytime it only will make my mood change right after that kind of reply..
But, that's a long years past response.
Now, I will just keep quiet & no response. (may be addicted on it reply already!)
Or sometimes, when she asked me somethings, I also not in the mood to reply her.

Well... This is not a good sign on the sibling relationship..
I did tried to change it, but the result is the same.
Therefore, I'm not going to do anything on it anymore. Just let it be~
Somehow, this only a simple & common example for me.
We been experienced didn't talked to each others in about one month... (Bear in mind that, we are staying together one..)
Or may be being together is ok, but stay together is really hard lo!

So, how about your's sibling relationship? Is it worst than me? Or better than me?
Anyway, I wish yours one will be better than mine one..

Sunglasses vs Skin Cancer

Last week, when I'm on the way ahead home, I listen to radio (forget which station already)...

The DJ was informed a news which I would like to share here.

When we drive or go outing in the afternoon, normally we will wear sunglasses, right? I think most of the people (75%) do the same..

But, here is a news that alert us now... For those who always wear sunglasses under the sun, the risk of getting skin cancer is higher than those not wearing sunglasses under the sun.

Why is it so? Reason is, when we wear sunglasses under the sun, we set our brain/mind that it is dark, so our brain didn't tell our skin that we are under the sun.

You may think of : So what?! Right?
That was my first response too...
But, keep continue...

When our brain telling that it is dark, then our body will not produce those chemical things (cant remember what it is) to protect our skin & we easily get sun burn as compare those not wearing sunglasses.

Besides, here also have a dilemma..
Which is our health care always said we must wear those UV protector sunglasses to protect our eyes and etc.. But now, seem like in a difference story already.

Well.. I think next time we can do some experiments..
Some wear sunglasses, some not; then we go for outing, we see who get sun burn first...
Hahaha....

This just a news to alert us when we are under the hot sun :)

Blogging

Blogging is not a new things now...
For the new generation or those born on Y generation, blogging is almost a normal or daily duty.
About 80% people from this generation will update their own stories, comment, angrier on their blog; just like their dairy.

Well, I'm also born under Y generation. So, that's a normal for me to blog at anywhere as I like.

Frankly speaking, some of the people having few blogging site & how many do you have? Haha... Funny, I've 3 which for difference functions...

1 is for boring & general stuffs; 1 is for a bit privacy, and last one is blogged with my true feeling..
How about yours?

Sometimes or somehow, we not telling everything to people. Or some people do not know how to talk to people with their true feeling... Well, this is the best way for them to spread & show their real & true feeling.
Are you one of the member of introvert?

For me, I can said I'm 80% under character of introvert. Another 20% is depends on the situation..Therefore, I like to write instead of speak~