Friendship

Today, was read a blog from a best friend.
It's regarding friendship. So, today I would like to start this topic in my blog as well..

Anyway, what you think about friendship?
Do you treasure & appreciate your friendship?
What kind of friendship that you prefer in your life?

Well... I believe, if you are true person, you will prefer to have a true friends, which can shared happiness, sadness, painfulness, etc...
So am I? As I treat friends good, I also wanted to get the return too... But in reality, it doesn't work. When you treat people good, doesn't means they appreciate it. But, may be those friend that you not care much, they really treasure your friendship. Do you notice it?

I do not have lot of friends. But among these best friends, we been experience a lot, before we getting closer & closer.
The experience here doesn't means only cases happened among us, but with other friends too. The only moral that we learnt is we know how to treasure our friendship.

Remembered, when I'm in primary 4, I have a best friend.
We study in the same school, we went to school together, we back from school together, we play together, we shared privacy together, etc.. The only thing is we are not in the same class...
So, we are doing well for 2 years...
When I'm in Primary 6, we went into same class. She found a good friend in the class, & I also know some new friends in the class. But I still love this friend. Some issue happened & she choose to trust her new friend which is not true and blame on me with nothing...
Yes, I was angried & sad. Due to that, I know I lost a best friend already, but I still treat her as my friend; the only difference is no privacy will be shared after that.

As lucky am I, when I'm in remove, I knew some friends... Easy going, friendly & truly friends.
I appreciate them as we have a very happy memories for at least 2 years in secondary school. We didn't compare result, we didn't conceal anythings among each others, we shared every feeling, we shared knowledge, etc... From don't know to understand each other well...

When I'm in Form 1, I knew my neighbour which is same school as me. From that point of level, we start to get closer. Whenver free or feeling to have some chat, we will come out & chit chat for few hours... We had been get close until I further my studied to University. May be I staying far after that, so we seldom contact each other. & also may be she got bf already, so she neglect me as her friend... Well, I still treat her as my best friend in my heart. (at least I trusted she will remember me as her friend, no matter is normal friend or best friend) Therefore, no matter she look for me when her bf not around, I still will meet up with her. Eventhough, for sometimes I felt she only ask for my accompanied. But, think wise... at least, she still remember can ask for my accompany...

When I'm in Uni, I thought I can find some best friends too...
Yes... At first I do, but after that, for some reason, the gang has been broke up...
Of course, sad & disappointed.
But, also a lucky for me, I still able to find a best friend when last year in the Uni, eventhough we are split after graduated.

I believe friends will never be ended if you really treasure them.
Friendship no need everyday meet up, no need always contact, when you treasure this friend, then they will always in your heart, then no matter how far both of you.
Therefore, no matter how you disappointed on your friendship now, you may have some true friends beside you too. Turn around & look through them, you will feel much touch to get these kind of "invisible" true friends.
Cheer~