Responsibility

Do you think responsibility is important?

Yeah, responsibility can refer to many things. For example: at work, responsible as a boss or a staff. At home, responsible as a father or a son. On the road, responsible as a driver. In a party, responsible as an organizer. and etc...

For me, responsibility is one of my character. I treat it as essential, because it show our seriousity on doing things. At work, I always play my roles to make my job done & successful. Because I would like to show my capable to my superior & myself. I want to be value & treat fair by the boss & colleagues. Somehow, I do not know how these people work like don't even care. When things happen, they can play Taichi to push the things to those innocents one. I don't even know how the bosses don't know about it & just simply trust on one party. Who play the right roles & who play the trick?

At home, I didn't play a perfect role as a daughter. This is because I put most of my time at work, therefore I have no time to accompany my family. But, sometimes I will spend my weekend time with my lovely mom: bring her to wet market, bring her to buy daily stuffs, bring her to shopping, bring her to watch movie, etc... This is what I can do for her whenever I have times.

On the road, I think I did play a good roles as a driver. When I make turn, I will give signal. When I cut queue, I will give signal & make sure it's ready to cut the queue. When my car breakdown, I will put double signal to inform others. When raining heavy, I will on my double signal & drive slow. When I feel sleepy, I will drive to rest area to have a coffee or rest before start moving. I don't like those driver always treat that the road is only for their own, never think of other people. The selfish & impatient attitude are the reason always make accident happen.

In a relationship, I try my best to be a good & understanding girlfriend. I lent my ears for him, to share his sadness, excitement, disappointment, worried, dream, etc... I give suggestion or comment to him if he willing to listen on it. I accompany him if he need me. I cool him down if he is in an anger. I believe it might take times for me to be a perfect girlfriend.

In a friendship, I do not pay much responsibility on it. Because I always thought that friends will always in our heart eventhough we have long time never contact each others. Therefore, I seldom take innitiative to contact them, to update their news always. I'm acting as passive role, to wait them come to me, wait them take the first move, etc... Or I will only make a call to them only once a year or even longer. I might need to improve this for myself & my dearest friends. I believe some of them are disappointed & fed up on me. But, I hope I still got a minor place in their heart :p

I try my best to play my role, do you?